I’m
regularly questioned by concerned parents about pacifier use. Some of
them approach me with a shamed expression, clearly embarrassed about the
situation they are in. As a dentist, I understand these parents’
concern. Others openly profess their love for their child’s fixation
and assign pet names , such as “bubba,” “ginky,” “jar jar” or
“pluggerdoodle,” to the one item they claim protects their sanity. As a
father, I understand this affection. I often respond to both types of
parents with the sentiment “there is a time for everything . . . even
the binky. But, once that time has passed, move on. ”
I completely support the use of a pacifier by infants.
The action of rhythmic sucking optimizes an infant’s breathing and
heart rate. This explains why pacifiers are recommended to help prevent
SIDS. The use of a pacifier soothes a newborn. In hospital nurseries,
infants cry significantly less if they are given a pacifier between
feedings. Muscular movements of the digestive tract work most
efficiently when a baby is sucking. Sucking on a pacifier helps to
re-regulate intestinal rhythms in babies with colic or digestive
difficulties.
There is a point, though, when too much of a good thing spells trouble.
Children who have continued a sucking habit beyond infancy are
regularly affected with crooked teeth, misaligned jaws and even speech
impediments. Problems with prolonged sucking can appear beyond the
mouth, too. One study has shown that children who did not use a
pacifier had nearly one third less occurrence of ear infections.
Prolonged sucking habits can also affect a child’s interaction with
others. Children with a pacifier in their mouths can’t talk and for
children who are shy, the pacifier creates an excuse to avoid expressing
themselves. This can stunt a child’s emotional and social growth.
So when is the right time to give up the binky?
Not during infancy. There are both physical and psychological reasons
to encourage the use of a pacifier through and beyond a baby’s first
year. Once a child has reached preschool age, however, there is no
benefit to sucking. Parents of children this age who haven’t given up
the habit already should take measures to stop the habit before
Kindergarten, especially if there are protruding, crooked teeth or their
child’s lips are flaring and are difficult to close. Another sign of
an excessive habit is the continuation of sucking vigorously throughout
the night. If a sucking habit continues into a child’s school years, it
is unlikely that the effects can be fixed without the help of an
orthodontist.
There are steps that a parent can take at all stages of their child’s development.
Introducing the pacifier in the right way, early in life, sets up a
child for successful weaning later in life. Parents of infants should
not offer a pacifier unless their baby is fussing. When a child is
fussing, they should first spend a moment to evaluate if something other
than a pacifier might solve the problem. To discover the underlying
difficulty and then address it teaches even the youngest infant to deal
with distress by problem-solving instead of mouth-filling. Once a child
has reached the status of toddler, a parent can introduce limits to the
availability of a pacifier. Offering a pacifier only at naptimes and
at bedtime is one way to start the weaning process. If a toddler seeks
out his pacifier at other times, a parent can present distractions to
help him engage in other, healthy activities. As a toddler matures and
starts to hone his reasoning and negotiating skills his parent can
reinforce his lack of pacifier use with praise and rewards. A parent
can also foster an excitement about the process by introducing
ceremonies to usher the child to a more mature and “grown up” phase of
life.
What should you, as a parent, do to help your child move away from the use of a pacifier? If it is time to say goodbye to your child's pacifier, there's lots of fun ways to do so. You can call our office at 509-891-7070 and ask about our "Pacifier Fairy Tree" or visit our Pinterest Pacifier Fairy board for some ideas!