Break the Pacifier Habit—Gently and Creatively
The Latin root for
pacifier is “pax,” or peace—and any parent who has been brought relief from an
infant’s screams by that bit of plastic knows why. But when the infant has
become a toddler, or even preschooler, getting him or her to forgo the binky
for good may feel like a war.
On the one hand—no pun
intended—it can be easier to break a child of a pacifier habit than a
thumb-sucking habit (you can’t take away a thumb!), so the American Academy of
Pediatric Dentistry (AAPD) recommends that you provide your baby with a safe
pacifier in infancy to satisfy her natural need to suck.
But, according to the
AAPD, the pacifier habit should be strongly discouraged after age 3. In fact,
there’s evidence that the longer a child uses a pacifier after age 2, the
greater the chances that his or her jaw and tooth development will be adversely
affected and correctable only by orthodontics years later.
If your child is very
attached to the pacifier, you may have to employ a creative strategy (or two)
in the detachment process. Experienced parents have made the following
suggestions:
- Enlist your dentist’s help. Arrange in advance for your
dentist to give your child a special gift in return for her bag of
collected binkies.
- Visit a Build-A-Bear Workshop. Along with the stuffing,
fill the bear with the pacifiers. This way, your child still has the
binkies, but they won’t be ruining his or her bite.
- Create a sticker chart. Every binky-free day earns a
sticker for your child. A certain number of stickers earn her a special
toy.
- Conduct a visit from the Tooth Fairy’s cousin, the
Paci-Fairy. Pacifiers placed under your child’s pillow at night are
“miraculously” replaced with something very special by the next morning.
Even if one of these
strategies works initially, there is no guarantee that a follow-up tantrum or
two won’t erupt. Be sympathetic but staunch, suggests Mark L. Brenner, author
of the book Pacifiers, Blankets, Bottles, and Thumbs: What Every Parent
Should Know About Starting and Stopping. Most kids, he says, will accept
their binky-free state in a couple of days.
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